Assalamualaikum ini adalah tugas pertama mata kuliah Komunikasi Multimedia dengan dosen bapak Feri Sanjaya, tugas nya kali ini cukup unik dan bikin semangat untuk ngerjain nya. Tugas kali ini adalah tentang mendeskripsikan diri sendiri. Ada pepatah tak kenal maka tak sayang, nah maka dari itu kalau mau sayang sama aku yuk kenalan dulu J Namaku Nurul Hikmah Suryani, orang-orang yang belum kenal, mereka sering manggil aku Nurul, Rul. Tapi orang-orang yang udah deket sama aku dan keluarga, mereka lebih sering maggil aku Uyuy. Lucu kan panggilan nya? Imut kan? đ Nurul Hikmah Suryani itu nama pemberian dari orangtua aku, yang mempunyai arti Nurul dari kata Nur yang artinya cahaya, Hikmah artinya kebaikan/manfaat, Suryani dari kata Surya yang artinya matahari. Jadi artinya adalah cahaya matahari yang membawa kebaikan/manfaat untuk keluarga dan sekitar aku wah bagus kan arti nama nya? J Aku lahir di Bandung, 29 Agustus 1996. Hari Kamis jam 2355 WIB. Menurut primbon Jawa sih orang yang lahir hari Kamis itu Nggaâ ada matinya. Itu kesan dari orang yang lahir di hari Kamis. Lihat saja angin, berhembus terus ke segala arah nggaâ ada capeknya. Tipe angin adalah orang yang pantang mundur dan nggaâ gampang menyerah. Semangatnya sangat tinggi, tekun dan giat berlatih. Jeleknya, orang bertipe angin ini kebalikan dari daun. Doâi pasti nggak betah di rumah. Seperti juga angin puyuh atau badai. Kalau sudah lupa diri, tipe angin ini jadi nggaâ terkendali. Sifat jelek lainnya dia suka banyak omong dan suka curiga berlebihan. Kebaikannya, doâi nggak pernah dendam pada siapapun. Makanya hidupnya terasa ringan. Seringan angin yang menerbangkan bulu. ah tapi ini sih kan katanya lagian aku juga nggak terlalu percaya sama yang kaya begituan, ya ada bener dan ada salah nya juga sih. Secara pribadi ada sifat yang baik dan buruk di kepribadian aku. Kita mulai dari yang baik dulu ya, menurut aku sifat baik aku Yang pertama adalah aku itu orangnya mudah bergaul sama siapa aja, ngga pandang bulu. Kalo punya kenalan baru pasti aku bakalan ngomong terus-terusan deh yaa tujuan nya sih buat mencairkan suasana gitu. Yang kedua aku itu orangnya pemaaf, banyak yang bilang sih kaya gitu, ya karena emang aku tuh suka ngga tegaan orangnya apalagi kalau seseorang yang salah sama kita udah minta maaf, ya pasti aku maafin. Yang ketiga aku itu orang nya penyabar, sabar untuk menunggu sesuatu kecuali nunggu kepastian dari kamu haha jadi aku itu sabar deh pokonya. Yang keempat aku tuh seneng banget berbagi, entah berbagi ilmu ataupun pengalaman. Yang kelima aku itu orangnya pendengar dan pengingat yang baik, aku gampang banget buat mengingat suatu hal secara mendetail resiko susah move on dan selain aku seneng ngomong, aku juga seneng banget buat dengerin cerita orang, apalagi kalo temen punya keluhan pasti aku bakalan dengerin dan kasih saran serta masukan untuk dia. Nah sekarang kita ke sifat buruk yaa Yang pertama aku itu orang nya gampang banget nangis, dalam segala hal apalagi tentang mamah duuh udah pasti bakal menguras air mata deh. Dengerin cerita sedih, ataupun nonton drama sedih suka ikutan nangis deh. Yang kedua aku itu orang nya gampang banget ngambek, alias sensitif apalagi kalo udah nyangkut perasaan pasti deh bakalan langsung sedih berkepanjangan hiks đ„ Yang ketiga aku itu orang nya gampang banget minder, kalo liat yang lebih dari aku pasti aku bakal minder âih ko dia bisa sihâ Yang keempat aku itu orang nya keras kepala, kalo kata aku A ya A gaakan jadi B. Ya gitu deh. Yang kelima aku itu orang nya gampang banget panik, cemas. Memikirkan sesuatu yang belum pasti terjadi. Ya itu deh sikap baik dan buruk aku, aku juga masih belajar untuk terus menjadi pribadi yang lebih baik, biar semua orang seneng untuk deket-deket sama aku. Dan aku masih belajar untuk membuang sifat-sifat buruk aku. Aku juga anak kedua dari dua bersaudara. Ngomongin soal etnis, aku asli Sunda. Makanya nggak salah kan kalau banyak yang bilang aku ini manis dan cantik, hehe bercanda ko. Saat ini aku lagi menempuh pendidikan di Universitas Mercu Buana Fakultas Ilmu Komunikasi jurusan Hubungan Masyarakat/ Public Relation tepatnya masih semester dua. Kenapa aku milih jurusan ini? Hal yang paling mendasar adalah karena aku tuh ngga suka yang berbau hitung-hitungan, dan aku rasa Humas adalah jurusan yang fleksibel dan sesuai sama minat dan bakat aku. Karena emang aku yang dasar nya seneng ketemu orang baru, seneng untuk bisa komunikasi sama orang-orang yang baru aku kenal, ya pokonya aku ngerasa jatuh cinta aja sama jurusan ini †Seperti orang lain, akupun punya banyak kegemaran. Aku suka banget sama yang namanya baca, nulis, nyanyi, renang. Itu empat hal yang paling aku suka. Karena aku ngerasa punya dunia sendiri disaat aku baca dan nulis, aku juga serasa lebih tenang kalo udah nyanyi meskipun jelek, dan aku ngerasa semua beban ilang disaat aku renang. Waktu aku kecil, aku punya cita-cita pengen jadi guru, tapi semakin kesini semakin ngga jelas deh pengen jadi apa haha. Aku juga pengen nya sih kerja di penerbitan, atau aku juga pengen jadi dosen yang pekerjaan sampingan nya jadi penulis hehe. Atau setidaknya aku pengen setelah aku lulus dan punya gelar aku pengen jadi seorang Public Relation di suatu perusahaan yang besar, atau ngga jadi pengusaha boleh juga tuh. Ya pokonya untuk saat ini aku pengen jadi orang yang berguna untuk orang lain J Itu mungkin hal-hal yang bisa aku share, selebihnya kalian bisa menyimpulkan sendiri aku itu orangnya seperti apa. Yang terpenting adalah aku selalu berusaha menjadi pribadi yang lebih baik dari hari-hari kemarin, dan masih sangat butuh belajar untuk memaknai suatu kehidupan ini, masih harus terus belajar agar bisa menjadi wanita yang dewasa J sekian, Wassalamualaikum Wr. Wb
ProsesPengembangan Kesadaran Diri Proses pengembangan kesadaran diri ini diperoleh melalui tiga cara, yaitu; Cermin diri (reflective self) terjadi saat kita menjadi subyek dan obyek diwaktu yang bersamaan, sebagai contoh orang yang memiliki kepercayaan diri yang tinggi biasanya lebih mandiri. Pribadi sosial (social self) adalah saat kita menggunakan orang lain sebagai kriteria untuk menilai konsep diri kita, hal ini terjadi saat kita berinteraksi.IMHO, "Who am I?" would be used when you introduce yourself, usually posing the question to the very person/people who you want to introduce yourself to, but immediately following it up with an introduction. Person A"Who the heck are you?" Person B"Who am I? I am the Supreme Ruler of the Universe." Also, if you are unfortunate enough to lose your memory, you would be asking yourselfor the people around you this question! And, when you ask "Who I am?", the emphasis is on the "I". Thus a person will use it in a situation where he would want to highlight himself. I think its use is mostly rhetorical. Person B "How dare you laugh at me? Do you know who I am?" Person A "Uhh.. The Supreme Ruler of all the idiots in the Universe."
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Who Am I? Siapa aku? Riska? Yaa aku Riska. Riska dengan segala kebaikan dan kekurangan yang ada. Mungkin sebenarnya sulit untuk menjelaskan, mendeskripsikan, memperkenalkan, atau menggambarkan tentang diriku sendiri. Barangkali akan lebih ditemukan banyak kekurangan-kekurangan daripada kebaikan atau kelebihan yang ada pada diriku ini. Sebelum menceritakan blablabla tentang diriku, mungkin lebih baik memperkenalkan diri dulu kali yaa. Nama lengkap Riska Amalia. Di keluargaku, panggilan Ika sudah ku sandang sejak kecil, namun selebihnya memanggilku Riska. Aku lahir di Tembilahan, tepatnya di parit 10 pada tanggal 3 Juni 1996. Aku terlahir disebuah keluarga kecil yang harmonis, yang mana saat aku berada di dalamnya hidupku terasa sempurna. Aku anak kedua dari tiga bersaudara. Ayahku bernama Ahmad Fauzi. Beliau telah berpulang ke rahmatullah pada tanggal 18 Januari 2012. Ibuku Siti Hamidah. Abangku Rezky Zulfahri dan adikku Muhammad Iqbal. Pendidikanku dimulai dari TK Bhayangkari Tembilahan Hulu 2000-2001, lalu lanjut SDN 010 Tembilahan Hulu 2002-2008, kemudian MTSN Tembilahan 2008-2011, lalu MAN Tembilahan 2011-2014, dan akhirnya melanjutkan kuliah di IAIN STS Jambi tercinta ini 2014-Sekarang, malaupun aku bermodal nekat untuk hidup jauh dari orang tua. Hehe Untuk perkenalan mungkin cukup itu aja, dan akan dilanjutkan tentang siapa aku?â. Di sini aku akan lebih menceritakan tentang sedikit sifat-sifat yang menurutku pribadi ada di dalam diriku dan juga dari pendapat beberapa orang. Orang-orang yang pertama kali bertemu denganku, berpendapat bahwa aku adalah seorang yang pendiam. Ya memang aku tidak terlalu banyak bicara dengan orang yang baru dikenal, tapi sebenarnya kalau udah kenal, banyak bicara juga kok đ Untuk di depan orang banyak aku lebih cenderung diam sih daripada banyak bicara. Tapi itu jelek juga sebenarnya, aku menilai diriku sebagai orang yang kurang percaya diri. Aku sangat benci tentang hal itu, tapi untuk mengubahnya juga butuh proses yang lumayan lama. Walaupun begitu, aku tetap punya tekad buat ngerubah itu semua, dan aku harus bisa jadi orang yang percaya diri dan berani. Oke selanjutnya adalah baikâ. Menurutku kata baik belum bisa menggambarkan diriku. Ya walaupun aku mempunyai prinsip untuk benar-benar bisa membantu dan bermanfaat bagi orang lain. Tapi aku merasa belum bisa dikatakan baik jika dibandingkan dengan orang lain yang mempunyai kapasitas baik yang lebih. Tapi entah kenapa teman-temanku, khususnya teman-teman sekelas pada waktu SMA, mengecap diriku sebagai seseorang yang baik karena berbagai alasan. Sangat senang sebenarnya mendapat predikat itu. Dan oleh karena hal itu, aku akan berusaha menjadi orang yang bermanfaat bagi orang lain dan bisa mempertahankan kata baikâ tersebut. Hobbyku membaca, nulis, termasuk nonton ;. Tokoh kartun yang aku suka adalah sponge bob. Selain karena warnanya kuning yang merupakan warna favoritku, sponge bob menurutku adalah tokoh kartun yang selalu ceria dan selalu memulai harinya dengan kalimat aku siap!â. Aku adalah orang yang ingin selalu terlihat ceria dan tidak mempunyai masalah di depan orang lain. Aku hanya akan menceritakan masalah-masalahku dengan orang-orang yang benar-benar bisa aku percaya, misal sahabat, tapi itu pun tidak semua masalah aku ceritakan kepada mereka. Terkadang karena aku jarang cerita dengan orang lain, sering banyak orang yang sesukanya memberi komentar tentang diriku, padahal mereka tidak tahu alasan sebenarnya tentang sesuatu yang terjadi. Jika mengalami hal seperti itu, aku hanya tersenyum dan meladeni omongannya. Aku sendiri mempunyai motto hidup Hidup hanya sekali, bermanfaatlah buat orang lainâ. Dan terakhir, harapanku ingin menjadi orang sukses dan membanggakan kedua orangku dan semua orang di sekelilingku, aku akan berusaha dengan keras , aku ingin mereka berkata â itu Riska, dan saya bangga padanya.â đ đ đ Mungkin hanya ini secuil tentang diriku. Bagi yang sudah mengenaliku dan mungkin ada beberapa yang kurang sesaui dengan pendapat kalian, aku minta maaf, ini hanya pendapatku, dan pendapat masing-masing orang itu berbeda ^^ ~Riska Amalia~ WhoAm I Essay Example 1 Who am I? Describing oneself is one of the most complicated tasks. In most cases, we always define ourselves using institutions, other people, or activities. Well, I know quite much about myself: I am a kind, friendly, respectful, and principled young person. First, I am a sociable person. Who am I to say,"Give up the jihad"?Who am I to be doing this kind of work?Who am I before I give you love? Orang-orang juga menerjemahkan Who Am I, Christine, South African Am I, Christine, Tribune Afrika I mean, who am I to give advice?Karena, memangnya anda siapa yang harus saya kasih saran?Who am I and why should they believe me?I who am talking with you."-John 4\ Dia, yang sedang berkata-kata dengan engkau. Yohanes 4 am I tujuanku berbicara itu untuk?And then who am I gonna call, you know, you?Who am I the husband of my husband's sister?We ask ourselves'Who am I to be brilliant?'?Kita bertanya pada diri kita memangnya siapa saya menjadi seorang yang bersinar?Rias smiles at me who am putting on a stiff tersenyum padaku yang sedang memakai tampilan Am I is a German techno-thriller film directed by Baran bo Am I adalah film techno-thriller Jerman tahun 2014 yang disutradarai oleh Baran bo who am life itself am now one with Aku yang adalah hidup itu sendiri sekarang if he likes it, then who am I to tell him otherwise?Jika memang saya menyukainya, siapa yang berani bilang sebaliknya?However, it is I who am learning from I not here, who am your Mother?But who am I to give advice?' he am he, who am speaking with thee. ContohEssay Tentang Who Am I - Essay, Research paper, Coursework, Discussion Board Post, Questions-Answers, Case Study, Term paper, Powerpoint Presentation, Research âWho am I?â How many times have you asked yourself this question? How many times have you questioned why youâre supposed to be on this earth? How many times have you questioned your very existence? For me, the answer is countless times. And the question itself makes me ask more questions can I ever know who I am? Why do I need to know who I am? Will any answer ever satisfy me? When these questions overwhelm me, I find myself inspired by this quote by the Indian sage, Ramana Maharshi âThe question, who am I?â is not meant to get an answer, the question who am I?â is meant to dissolve the questioner.â Whoa. Dissolve the questioner. What does that even mean? How can dissolving my identity help me figure out who I am? Letâs try and find out. Who am I = what is my identity? The âanswerâ to âwho am Iâ is our identity. Our identity is our all-encompassing system of memories, experiences, feelings, thoughts, relationships, and values that define who each of us is. Itâs the stuff that makes up a âself.â Identity is a critical component of understanding who we are. Why? Because we can break up identity into components values, experiences, relationships. These components we can identify and understand. Then, once we have understood the components of our identity, we can get a big-picture look at who we are. In a nutshell weâre a lot more than one thing. Weâre a whole system of ideas and experiences. Our need for identity âWho am I?â gets at the heart of one of our most basic needs our need for identity. We, as living beings, search for and find comfort in a solid sense of identity. It grounds us. It gives us confidence. And our sense of identity affects every single thing in our lives â from the choices we make to the values we live by. According to Shahram Heshmat author of Science of Choice âIdentity relates to our basic values that dictate the choices we make relationships, career. These choices reflect who we are and what we value.â Wow. Our identities are almost avatars for the values and tenets that we hold. Our identity is a reflection of what we believe, what we do, and what we value. Powerful stuff. Yet, our sense of identity can be compromised by outside factors. How is that possible? Well, Dr. Heshmat explains âFew people choose their identities. Instead, they simply internalize the values of their parents or the dominant cultures pursuit of materialism, power, and appearance. Sadly, these values may not be aligned with oneâs authentic self and create unfulfilling life.â Oof. This is what can cause problems. Hereâs the painful truth much of our identity was forced upon us. This inorganic identity causes us to experience a tremendous amount of stress. Why? Because we know that âthat identityâ is false. Itâs something demanded of us. The problem is, we donât know what our âorganicâ identity is. And thatâs why we ask, âwho am I?â The need to reclaim your power One of the biggest things holding us back from finding out who we are is that so many of us have no real personal power. It can leave us feeling frustrated, disconnected, and unfulfilled. So what can you do to find out who you are and what youâre doing here? Begin with yourself. Stop searching for people to tell you how to think or what you should do. The more you look for external fixes to sort out your life, the further you be venture from learning how to live your life aligned with a deeper sense of inner purpose. I came across a good way to think about this after watching Justin Brownâs video on the hidden trap of improving yourself. He is rather thought-provoking and explains how visualizations and other self-help techniques can hold us back from discovering who we are. Instead, he offers a new, practical way for us to question and discover a deep sense of ourselves. After watching the video, I felt like I had some useful tools to inquire more deeply within, and this helped me to feel less frustrated and lost in life. You can watch the free video here. The roles we play To make things harder on ourselves, we each have multiple identities â sons, daughters, parents, friends. We split and compartmentalize our identities into âroles.â And we perform these ârolesâ in different circumstances. Each role, to quote Dr. Heshmat, has âits meanings and expectations that are internalized as identity.â When we perform these roles, we internalize them as if they were our real identities. Weâre all actors, taking on a dozen roles. Except the problem is, weâve tricked ourselves into believing these roles are real. This conflict, coupled with the need to find our authentic self, is the cause of much of our unhappiness. This conflict is called âidentity struggle.â âOften, in the face of identity struggle, many end up adopting darker identities, such as drug abuse, compulsive shopper, or gambling, as a compensatory method of experiencing aliveness or staving off depression and meaninglessness.â Struggling to figure out who we are can have grave side effects. Thatâs why it is important to discover the answer to the question âwho am I?â Because the alternative is âdepression and meaninglessness.â On the upside, people who have successfully found their authentic selves are shown to be far happier and more content. This is because they are âable to live a life true to their values and pursue meaningful goals.â But how can you figure out who you are? How can you separate your true identity from the one given to you by your family and what was shaped by society? Check out the video below on Justin Brownâs realization that he was playing the role of the âgood personâ. He finally owned up to this and managed to experience much more clarity on who he is. How can I figure out âwho I am?â Itâs critical to discover who you are. When you are firm in your identity, your life is more meaningful, joyful, and purposeful. We have found that there are 5 key steps you can take to help answer the question âwho am I?â These steps are backed by experts and will help you firm up your identity so that you can live a life full of purpose. Here are 5 ways to help answer the question, âwho am I?â 1 Reflect To quote the King of Pop, âIâm starting with the man in the mirror.â And this advice rings true. You need to reflect upon yourself whenever you are engaging in self-discovery. This means that you have to examine yourself â for all your strengths, flaws, impressions you give others, the whole lot. You have to critically engage with the reflection you present. You have to be your inspector. You have to look at your whole self as the house, and get down deep to that foundation. Ask yourself, who are you right now? What are your strengths? Your flaws? Do you like who you see in the mirror? Do you think that âwho you areâ doesnât match âwho you see?â How does that make you feel? Identify which areas of your life you are unhappy about. Look at what you think could be better â mentally, emotionally, and physically. Donât go rush and slap band-aids all over the issues. This step isnât about quick fixes. Itâs not even about changing anything. Instead, itâs about sitting with yourself â ups and downs â and understanding where you are. Once you have a good grasp on yourself, then you can move on to step two. 2 Decide who you want to be You can never be a perfect person. Thereâs no such thing as a perfect person. You have to embrace the fact that you will never be perfect. But, on the path to self-discovery, you should embrace that there are things you want to improve. And improvement is possible! So, for step two, what you need to do is identify who you want to become. And be honest with yourself about whatâs possible. Being Superman isnât what weâre after. Letâs take a page out of Dr. Jordan B. Petersonâs international bestselling book, 12 Rules For Life âStart with yourself. Take care of yourself. Refine your personality. Choose your destination and articulate your Being.â Who is your ideal person? Is it someone kind, strong, intelligent, brave? Is it a person who isnât afraid of a challenge? Is it a person who can open herself up to love? Whoever this dream person is, define them. Define who you want to become. Thatâs step two. 3 Make better choices Make better choices⊠for yourself. The truth is, most of us are programmed to make choices out of fear. We instinctively make an easy choice based on anxiety, desire to please, or because we donât want to put in the effort. These choices only do one thing continue the status quo. And if youâre not happy with who you are, with your current status quo, then these choices do nothing to help you. Those choices, then, are the bad choices. But you can choose better for yourself. You can make âactive decisions.â Take if from clinical psychologist Marcia Reynolds âChoice means you are free to do or not do something because you decided on your own. âTo activate conscious choice, you first have to do some work to determine what really matters to you. What strengths are you proud of? What tasks do you most enjoy? What dreams keep haunting you? What would you do if you had no obligations or people to please? Take time to sort through your desires.â Once you know what you want, and once you know who you want to be; you can take the time to make active, conscious choices that help you be better. What are these choices like? Well, letâs say that your dream version of yourself is a marathoner. That active choice means choosing to get off the couch, lace up those shoes, and hit the pavement. Maybe you want to go back to school and graduate college. That means choosing to complete applications, choosing to ask for recommendation letters, and choosing to study. Once you make decisions that are in line with your values and what you want, youâll start feeling empowered to find out your true identity. 4 Explore your passions One of the best parts about discovering the answer to âwho am I,â is figuring out parts of yourself you never knew about. Sure, youâve figured out who you âwant to beâ and youâve done a great job âlooking in the mirror,â but thereâs always going to be parts of you that are hidden away. And itâs your job to discover them. One of the best ways to help discover yourself is to explore your passions. When you engage in things you are passionate about, you stimulate creative energies. If youâre passionate about sewing, go out and sew! The more that you sew, youâll begin to see yourself as a âsewer,â even perhaps a master of your craft. This exploration will give you confidence and expertise, which helps positively ground your sense of identity. But what if I donât know what Iâm passionate about When your identity has been built by societyâs expectations, itâs natural that you might not know what youâre passionate about. Thatâs ok! But if you havenât, donât go looking for it. Instead, develop it. âWhat? How am I supposed to develop something if I donât even have it?â Hear me out take a listen to Terri Trespicioâs 2015 TED Talk, Stop Searching For Your Passion. âPassion is not a job, a sport or a hobby. It is the full force of your attention and energy that you give to whatever is right in front of you. And if youâre so busy looking for this passion, you could miss opportunities that change your life.â If you donât know what your passion is, donât freak out. Itâs not like itâs âthe one,â and if you canât find it, youâll miss out on your life. Instead, try your hand at hobbies and projects that are available to you right now. Does the backyard look a little weedy? Try mulching the beds, plant some flowers. Maybe youâll realize you have a passion for gardening. Maybe you wonât. But thatâs ok. Itâs all about exploration. You need to explore the possibilities for growth. Developing a growth mindset is a key component of exploring your passions. Along the way, youâll figure out who you are. If youâre looking for some inspiration in developing a growth mindset, check out these inspirational quotes. 5 Develop your social circle Humans are social beings by nature. So much of our identity is shaped by our friends and family. When you work to figure out âwho you are,â you have to actively create your social circle. This means choosing who you want to hang out with. It means choosing who to let in, and who to cut loose. You must find people who are aligned with your values and identity. Author and life coach Mike Bundrant explains âWhen you understand whatâs most important to you in life â your life values â you can clarify who you are by choosing your social circles based on compatible values. You can have great clarity in your relationships, too, as you see yourself reflected in the people around you.â They always say you can judge a man by the company he keeps. This is very true. You can judge yourself by the people you hang out with. If youâre hoping to develop yourself as a person, look at the friend group you have. Are they pushing you forward or holding you back? Your identity is an ongoing process The task of finding out who you are isnât an easy one. Itâs probably one of the hardest things youâll ever take on. One of the worst things you can do during this process is to put pressure on yourself to figure it out right away. Discovering your identity is a journey, not an ending. When we race to the finish line, we forget the value of the growth process. Identity isnât a static term. Why should it be? Weâre constantly growing, changing, evolving. We have trillions of cells in our bodies that live and die all the time. Weâre dynamic! Our identities must be dynamic too! Psychotherapist and author of A Shift Of Mind, Mel Schwartz believes that we should look at our identities as an evolution of ourselves. âOur identity should be seen as an ongoing process. Rather than a static snapshot, we should embrace a flowing sense of self, whereby we are perpetually re-framing, re-organizing, re-thinking and re-considering ourselves. âHow different would life be if rather than asking who am I, we contemplated how weâd like to engage life?â When you embrace that your identity is dynamic, you take a lot of pressure off of yourself to pin down exactly who you are. Relax! Youâre you. You know what you value, what you like, and what you want to be. You got the basics down! If those change, thatâs ok. Start back over from step one. Donât be afraid of growth. Positive disintegration Growth comes at a cost. When you figure out who you truly are, you have to rid yourself of the parts of you that arenât honest. So how do you go through such a complicated process? When you have to shed off parts of yourself to become who you are, it may feel like youâre tugging yourself in two. Ripping yourself in two can be scary, right? Thereâs fear that you could be throwing away a valid part of yourself â a part of yourself that youâve held onto for far too long. But, you have to remember, that isnât you. We have to embrace our ability to change, evolve, and become better. We have to engage in Positive Disintegration. The goal of this type of personal development is to identify and keep the mindset and behaviors that serve us well and shed the patterns that hold us back and limit our possibilities. The more we can embrace what works and aligns with our true selves and let go of all of that which inhibits authentic expression, the more we will experience life as we naturally and truly are. You have to let go of the things that are holding you back. You have to trust that youâre doing the right thing by shedding the parts of you that arenât you. I promise you, youâre not going to miss the false you. Instead, youâll be excited to finally meet and accept yourself. So who are you? This much is clear discovering who you are is a never-ending journey. Like the universe, you are never in the same state. You will always change, evolve, grow. Why do we get so caught up with our definition of identity? Itâs because we all crave the same things happiness, peace, and success. Without finding out who you are, you feel like youâll never come close to any of it. So in your journey of self-discovery, remember to take a step back and reflect on yourself âAm I making decisions based on my values? Am I who I want to be?â Once you have reflected upon yourself and discovered who you want to be, you can engage in the process of pushing yourself forward through active choosing, exploration, and positive disintegration to finally make yourself the person you always hoped youâd become. So you have two ways to approach this investigation. In one method, you listen to the advice and counsel of others who convince you that theyâve gone through this experience and know secrets and tips to guide you through the same. process. The other way is that you find tools and inspiration for how you can question your own life and find the answers for yourself. This is why I find the video on the hidden trap of visualizations and self-improvement so refreshing. It puts the responsibility and power back into your own hands. If you leave your life to someone else, how can you possibly learn more deeply about yourself? One puts the power of your life in the hands of someone else, the other method approach helps you to take the reins of your own life. And in the process, youâll discover the answer to the question âwho am I?â âI am me.âThosedifferences make me who I am. Who am I? I am a girl in mid-teenage. From childhood, I always loved to interact with people. I like to know people and make friends. I am a social person and go out with my friends and family. Also, I like to visit new places. Nature attracts me.Harapan dan perjuangan Pertanyaan "Who Am I?" Adalah suatu pertanyaan yang hanya memiliki tiga kata. Tetapi ketika di jabarkan akan memiliki jawaban yang berbeda-beda antar manusia. Karena setiap orang memiliki persepsi tersendiri untuk menjawab siapa dirinya. Untuk penjabaran "Who Am I?", saya akan menjabarkan siapa diri saya. Saya merupakan salah satu anak dari keluarga yang sederhana. Saya diajarkan bagaimana hidup dengan bahagia dengan serba kekurangan. Nama saya imam kurniawan, saya anak pertama dari tiga bersaudara. Lahir di daerah terpencil di dusun IV desa gunung tiga pada hari rabu, 27 Agustus 1997. Saat ini saya berumur 20 tahun. Saya merupakan salah satu pemuda yang mempunyai impian untuk mengentaskan masalah perekonomian dan pendidikan di daerah saya. Saya alumni SMP N 2 PEKALONGAN, saya merasa berbeda dengan orang lain. Karena dari setiap jenjang pendidikan, banyak halangan dan rintangan yang dilalui. Yang paling pelik bagi orang pedesaan yang memimpikan pendidikan adalah masalah finansial. Itu adalah masalah pokok setiap masyarakat, tapi saya di ajarkan bagaimana bersyukur dalam keadaan sesulit apapun. Masa remaja adalah masa dimana saya selalu menginginkan sesuatu hal yang orang lain inginkan. Tapi karena keadaan, keinginan itu terpendam dalam sanubariku. Berhenti melanjutkan ke jenjang selanjutnya mungkin sesuatu yang tidak di harapkan oleh setiap remaja. Tapi inilah kenyataannya untukku, diri ini merasa harapan dan cita-cita hilang. Karena pandanganku, cita-cita hanya bisa diraih dengan pendidikan. Ternyata dibalik keadaanku itu, mulailah mengerti akan kerasnya kehidupan. Hidup ini penuh pengorbanan dan perjuangan untuk menggapai sebuah harapan. Dengan bekerja, saya mulai optimis untuk menggapai cita. Sampai timbul dalam ingatanku, "aku kerja bukan untuk kaya, tapi aku kerja untuk menuntut ilmu". Waktu telah berlalu, optimistis untuk sekolah lagi menggugah sanubariku. Harapan yang dulu terkubur dalam, sekarang seakan muncul lagi kepermukaan dan siap-siap untuk beraksi. Alhamdulillah, dengan bekerja membuat harapanku kembali. Walaupun orang tua tidak mendukung awalnya, tapi inilah tantangan awal untuk meyakinkan orang tua. Bahwa keinginanku akan terwujudnya cita-cita lebih besar dibandingkan keadaan yang cukup menyulitkan. Saya pun kembali melanjutkan ke SMA MUHAMMADIYAH PEKALONGAN. Beasiswa prestasi pun selalu diraih ketika sekolah, dan itu menjadi bukti awal bahwa saya bersungguh untuk menuntut ilmu. Dan akhirnya dengan cara itu, orang tua menjadi yakin bahwa anaknya ini bersungguh-sungguh untuk menuntut ilmu di sekolah. Dan akhirnya sekarang dapat kuliah di IAIN METRO, ini seperti mimpi bagiku. Orang tua pun terkadang seperti tidak percaya bahwa anaknya dapat kuliah, bahkan berdua dengan adiknya. Adikku mengambil jurusan Ahwal Al Syakhsiyah / hukum keluarga Islam. Saya tumbuh dari anak yang tidak mengetahui apa-apa, kemudian menjadi pemuda yang penuh semangat untuk membawa perubahan di desa terpencil. Saya yakin, dengan sebuah kemauan yang kuat dengan di imbangi tindakan yang nyata dapat membuat keterbatasan menghilang. Prinsip saya kuliah adalah supaya saya dapat membawa perubahan yang bermanfaat untuk masyarakat. Bukan hanya sekedar menuntut ilmu, tapi ada misi lain di samping itu. Setiap apa yang diupayakan pasti akan menuai hasilnya. Maka aku akan terus berupaya untuk membangun desa kecil yang selalu jadi masalah utamanya ekonomi. Saya yakin dengan pendidikan, masalah perekonomian akan semakin berkurang. Experienceis the best teacher short essay Contoh Essay Tentang Who Am I topics vivek. Management Accounting-Advanced financial accounting is concerned with the preparation of an organizations, financial position of the business which can help in shaping better decisions for management.
ï»żThere are 1001 potential answers to the question Who am I?â It sounds like a simple question but itâs got a complicated answer, least of all because there is no single you. Your own answer will likely depend on who is asking and how deep you want to go. Answering âwho am I?â in an interview or on a date, is probably going to be more descriptive and less philosophical. But on another level, the better we know ourselves, the more insightful we become. As Aristotle once said âKnowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.â Get to know yourself better with these âwho am Iâ example answers that help you to delve deeper into who you really are. Why is it difficult to answer the question who am I? âWho am I?â is how we see and define ourselves. It creates our identity, and in turn our reality. I am my name, I am my job, I am my relationships, I am my network, I am my sexuality, I am my affiliations, I am my hobbies. These are all labels you could use to describe yourself. Even though many give clues and pointers to who you are, theyâre still limited. One of the reasons why answering âWho am Iâ is so tricky is because the social roles you play in life âas an accountant, a brother, a father, a heterosexual man, etc.â donât get to the heart of who you really are. Neither does simply listing your interests or hobbies. You may be a keen cyclist, who enjoys crosswords and watching anime. Although that can give you and others a snapshot of you, you are clearly so much more. If youâre seeking self-knowledge, or even just more interesting conversations, the really juicy stuff tends to live below the surface. Beyond the mundane categories, we put ourselves into is what makes us truly tick. Itâs often a collection of our interests, experiences, characteristics, choices, values, and beliefs that show us who we are. Understanding these things about ourselves is what helps us to understand the complexity of our identity. âWho am Iâ example answers for self-reflection 1 What lights me up? Figuring out what lights you up is perhaps the key to figuring out your purpose in life. âThe mystery of human existence lies not in just staying alive, but in finding something to live for.â â Fyodor Dostoyevsky What type of work would I also do for free? What do you spend hours on and the time just flies? The things that light us up are so incredibly unique to you. 2 What drains me? All kinds of things can drain your energy â whether itâs bad habits like doomscrolling through your phone at 2 am when you should be sleeping, or taking everything personally when you know you need to let that sh*t go. Figuring out the people and things that are our energy zappers shed light on who we are, and helps us identify what we need to let go of. 3 What are the things that are most important to me in life? Asking yourself what really means the most to you helps you figure out your values. Sometimes itâs not until you take the time to clarify what matters most to you that you see where your words and actions arenât matching up. A lot of the time what we say is important isnât reflected in where we put our time and effort. Your values should determine your priorities, which then become a measure of whether life is turning out the way you want it to. A lot of the time when weâre feeling frustrated, stuck, or unhappy we discover weâre not living by our values. 4 Who are the people who are most important to me in life? One of the biggest mirrors we have in life is the relationships we create. Who you are is to a certain extent a collaborative effort between you and the countless people you meet. Itâs been shaped by the parents that raised you, the people who have loved you, and those who have hurt you too. Relationships mold who we are, where we belong, and what we will leave behind. 5 What stresses me out? Stress is our bodyâs response to pressure. This is exactly why it can tell us plenty about ourselves. It can be triggered when you are dealing with something new, something unforeseen, when youâre feeling out of control or when something threatens your sense of self. Even the way we handle stress says a lot about us. According to the Yale School of Medicine, stress dates back to the origins of humanity but we all experience it differently âIn general, women are more likely to think and talk about what is causing stress. Women also are more likely to reach out to others for support and seek to understand the sources of their stress. Men typically respond to stress using distraction. And men often engage in physical activities that can offer an escape from thinking about a stressful situation.â 6 What is my definition of success? Who doesnât want to be successful in life, but what exactly is success? For some, being successful might be money, fame, or recognition. For others, the legacy of success is more about the impact they want to make on the world or helping others. Success isnât always about the biggest wins, with some of lifeâs most rewarding successes coming from more humble pursuits â raising a family, cultivating loving relationships, living a balanced life. Finding fulfillment in success means pursuing your own definition of it, not someone elseâs. 7 What makes me angry? Anger isnât all bad. Rather than trying to sweep it under the carpet, what really gets us mad has a lot to tell us. There are plenty of occasions when anger is powerful. It fuels strength and courage to stand up for the things you believe in. It highlights the behaviors and the social causes we feel strongly about. Working out what gets you annoyed can give you clues to what you are most passionate about. 8 What gets me out of bed in the morning? Other than the alarm on repeat for half an hour followed by a gallon of coffee, what gets you out of bed in the morning? Figuring out what motivates you is the cornerstone of success and purpose. Much like success, when you try to follow someone elseâs version, it wonât last long. As the author of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Peopleâ Stephen Covey, puts it âMotivation is a fire from within. If someone else tries to light that fire under you, chances are it will burn very briefly.â 9 What relaxes me? If everybody is prone to stress, then everybody needs to know how to destress too. Especially in the digital age, relaxing is often easier said than done. A lot of us have forgotten how to truly unwind, with experts suggesting this is why we spend so long glued to a screen instead. Speaking in the Guardian newspaper, Psychoanalyst David Morgan says âPeople have got so used to looking for distraction that they actually cannot stand an evening with themselves. It is a way of not seeing oneself, because to have insight into oneself requires mental space, and all these distraction techniques are used as a way of avoiding getting close to the self.â 10 What brings me joy? Do you ever get the feeling that figuring out exactly what makes you happy in life is just as complicated as trying to figure out who you are? Psychotherapist Linda Esposito says one of the reasons happiness is so hard is that we often get it all wrong. We think life is about always feeling good and so we desperately do whatever we can to dodge suffering whilst simultaneously chasing external rewards and validation. âSure we experience joyful moments and blissful memories, but life is about the journey and enjoying the steps along the way.â 11 What scares me? The things that scare us most are the glaring big flashing signs to our inner psyche. Roller coasters, drugs, and getting really close to someone are a few of mine. They all have one big underlying thing in common â they trigger my fear of losing control. If youâre terrified of public speaking, youâre probably a people pleaser with perfectionist tendencies. If youâre afraid of the dark then according to research, you may well be more creative and imaginative. Your biggest fears are reflections of your personality. 12 What makes me curious? Another important breadcrumb to follow on any path to purpose in life is that little spark of curiosity inside. One of the most unique features of human beings which has been crucial to our evolution as a species is the lifelong capacity to learn. This childlike feature of curiosity, known as Neoteny in the science world, helps us advance through exploration. As psychologist and cognitive scientist, Tom Stafford writes âEvolution made us the ultimate learning machines, and the ultimate learning machines need to be oiled by curiosity.â 13 What are my failures? Weâve probably all heard the saying that âfailure is feedbackâ. Our biggest failures can be simultaneously our greatest disappointments and our greatest opportunities. Failure may cause suffering in the short-term, but if dealt with in a healthy way, failure allows us to learn in a way that ultimately contributes to our wins in life. The world is full of people who refused to define themselves on their failures and instead used past failures to fuel success. 14 What keeps me awake at night? What keeps us awake at night offers us insight into the changes we may need to make â even if itâs just to stop drinking caffeine after 5 pm. Whether itâs daydreams of another life quitting your 9-5, moving country, finding love or the worries that have you tossing and turning unable to switch off. The nightime hours when itâs dark and quiet can tell us a lot about who we are. 15 What disappoints me? How we handle disappointment often comes down to how we manage our expectations. It happens when our hopes and expectations about a situation fall out of line with reality. Some people try to avoid disappointment by turning into underachievers, whilst others seek to avoid it through the opposite of overachieving. The disappointments we feel are signposts to our biggest desires, as well as our beliefs about ourselves and other people. 16 What are my insecurities? Everyone feels insecure from time to time. One survey found that 60 percent of women experience hurtful, self-critical thoughts on a weekly basis. Our insecurities tend to be shaped by our âcritical inner voiceâ. According to Dr. Lisa Firestone, who co-authored Conquer Your Critical Inner Voiceâ âThe critical inner voice is formed out of painful early life experiences in which we witnessed or experienced hurtful attitudes toward us or those close to us. As we grow up, we unconsciously adopt and integrate this pattern of destructive thoughts toward ourselves and others.â 17 What do I want to learn? Countless lockdowns over the coronavirus pandemic left a lot of us pondering how we spend our time, and how we can use it to improve ourselves. Lifeâs endless learners are usually the most successful and happy. A growth mindset sees everything as an opportunity to grow. Lifelong learning builds the mental flexibility that helps us to adjust and thrive. 18 What do I respect most about myself? Self-respect is about treating yourself the way youâd want others to treat you. The respect we feel towards ourselves is the qualities, achievements, and areas of life in which we hold ourselves in the highest esteem. It is a sense of admiration for all that is good or valuable that you see in yourself. 19 What are my regrets? Regrets can shape or break us. Research found that itâs also true what they say, youâre more likely to regret something you didnât do than something you did. Results showed inaction regrets lasted longer than action regrets. It also showed that most of our regrets tend to come from romance rather than other areas of life. So it seems that perhaps we are our regrets in love. Although regret can seem useless, feeling regret allows us to make different potentially better choices in the future. 20 What am I good at? There are a lot of clues hidden in the things you seem to have a natural aptitude for which can help show you who you are. Some have a gift for communication, a way with numbers, a creative streak, an analytical mind. Taking a look at past achievements, asking what you love to do most, and trying out new things help to reveal your talents and strengths. 21 What am I bad at? Just like every yin has a yang, every person is bound to have strengths and weaknesses. Itâs tempting to quickly drop the things we feel like weâre not good at. But when you wrap your identity up in solely what you are good at, your identity can start to be defined by your skills. What weâre bad at is sometimes where we discover what weâve been dodging in life. But asking what we could do with improving can help push your comfort zone and put you into a growth mindset. 22 What are my beliefs about myself? Your beliefs shape your reality in several ways. Who you believe yourself to be is powerful. On a fundamental level, your beliefs create your behavior. As noted in Psychology Today âResearch suggests that while guilt feeling that you did a bad thing can motivate self-improvement, shame feeling like you are a bad person, tends to create a self-fulfilling prophecy, reducing hope and undermining efforts to change. By the same token, some evidence suggests that praising character as opposed to behavior is a more effective means of promoting positive behaviors.â 23 What are my past hurts and pains? The choices we make for ourselves are often influenced by our past. When we are making healthy judgments we may use our pain as a marker for what we do not want in our lives. But when reflection turns to ruminating on past negative experiences, we may start to feel stuck and define ourselves based on the bad things that have happened to us. 24 What are my habits? Happiness researcher and author Gretchin Rubin says that âHabits are part of your identity. Changing them means changing a fundamental part of who we are.â âHabits are the invisible architecture of our lives. We repeat about 40 percent of our behavior almost daily, so our habits shape our existence and our future â both good and bad.â 25 What do I envy? Do you wish you could say âI am fluent in Frenchâ, âI am a world travelerâ, or âI am a great cookâ? The things we envy about others and wish we had or were ourselves give us great pointers towards our desires. They help us to set goals. One of the best things about âI amâ is that it isnât fixed in stone, and you can grow and change it to incorporate whatever you want to be. âWho am Iâ spiritual answer Weâve seen how difficult it is to answer âWho am Iâ psychologically, especially as our identity is an ongoing process rather than something static. But on some level, âWho am Iâ is just as big of a question as âIs there a God?â or âWhat is the meaning of life?â. The majority of people in the world have some form of spiritual belief. Thatâs why, for many people, it becomes not just a psychological question to answer, but a spiritual one too. In contrast to self-knowledge on a psychological level, many spiritual teachers say the key to discovering who you are on a spiritual level lies in shedding who you perceive yourself to be. In his book, The End of Your World, Adyashanti defines meeting the true self as a melting away of the very concept of self. âIn that instant awakening, the whole sense of âself â disappears. The way they perceive the world suddenly changes, and they find themselves without any sense of separation between themselves and the rest of the world. âItâs this yearning that underpins all spiritual seeking to discover for ourselves what we already intuit to be trueâ that there is more to life than we are currently perceiving.â In a spiritual sense, the very notion of being separate from the whole is an illusion to be overcome. âWe realizeâoften quite suddenlyâthat our sense of self, which has been formed and constructed out of our ideas, beliefs, and images, is not really who we are. It doesnât define us; it has no center. The ego may exist as a series of passing thoughts, beliefs, actions, and reactions, but in and of itself it has no identity. Ultimately all of the images we have about ourselves and the world turn out to be nothing but a resistance to things as they are. What we call ego is simply the mechanism our mind uses to resist life as it is. In that way, ego isnât a thing as much as it is a verb. It is the resistance to what is. It is the pushing away or pulling toward. This momentum, this grasping and rejecting, is what forms a sense of a self that is distinct, or separate, from the world around us.â Perhaps any spiritual truths about the nature of who we are are bound to remain shrouded in mystery. In the words of the 14th-century mystical poet Hafez âI have a thousand brilliant lies For the question How are you? I have a thousand brilliant lies For the question What is God? If you think that the Truth can be known From words, If you think that the Sun and the Ocean Can pass through that tiny opening Called the mouth, O someone should start laughing! Someone should start wildly Laughing Now!â Condensing the enormity of an entire Universe into words is no doubt an impossible task. Did you like my article? 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